Comedian James Nokise was in the UK from June, having done the
Glastonbury Festival and getting ready to do 3 seperate shows at
the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, including his debut solo hour - So
So Gangsta - at the legendary comedy venue, The Stand.
But in July he received a phone call from home saying his
step-mother (his father's wife of 29 years, and the mother of all
his siblings) had only weeks to live due to terminal cancer. The
Nokise's are not a wealthy family, so Rosalyn thought she could
hold on till he was back. However the rest of the family disagreed.
They emptied accounts and maxed credit cards to get a return flight
from the UK to NZ and back again for Edinburgh.
James had eight days in the hospice with Rosalyn, then left for
the Edinburgh Festival. She died 10 days in.
What is being asked for is help to recuperate the costs of those
emergency flights. The amount is $2737.00 NZ. It is only for the
cost of the flights, and does not include interest.
"Why go back to Edinburgh, why not cancel?"
1) Rosalyn wanted James to be in Edinburgh, and was determined
that he go back and perform. She believed in the opportunity and
knew how hard he had worked for it.
2) She was right. James' was committed to three different shows
(So So Gangsta, Puppet Fiction, Poetry Can F*ck Off), which we're
all successes and have lead to future festival bookings, an invite
to bring a new work to The Stand in 2017, an appearance on the BBC,
an offer of a season in London at The Museum of Comedy, and future
work in Australia and New Zealand as well.
However, after funeral arrangements, there is still the debt of
the flights, and success in the arts doesn't always mean success in
the bank account.
This is an extraordinary and one-off ask for help.
Thank You Everyone
24 MONTHS AGO
Today payment came through from the Boosted project, and I just wanted to take the opportunity to say a massive thanks to everyone who's given to me and the family. It's made a massive difference and really lifted some of the pressure that's come with everything.
Also just a thanks for all the messages online and those of you who I've seen in person since coming back to NZ. If I've seemed a little distant, it's only because I'm genuinely overcome by all of this, and have to resist the urge to hug everyone involved.
I'm not really sure what else to say. Many emotions, much aroha. Fa'afetai Lava.
Thank you everyone - almost there
25 MONTHS AGO
Just a note to say thank you so much for helping. I admit it was pretty daunting putting this out there and it's been very humbling to see people respond. It means a lot to me and will mean a lot to my family.
I'm finally back with them now, and looking forward to being home for a couple of months. They've still got no idea about this and which is a small miracle.
We're 83% funded and have a week to go. So if possible it would be great, if you have time and know people this would appeal to, if you could pass on through non-social media. I appreciate all that's been done so far.
Alofa and much appreciation,